Over the years Arthur and I spent a lot of time talking on
phone since we were in a long-distance relationship. We spent hours talking on the phone at 9pm
every night sharing the day’s activities and shooting the breeze with
ease. However there was no ease to be
found with our first phone call. One
evening I was peacefully studying at my desk when my world suddenly turned
upside down. My cell phone rings and
Arthur is on the other end. He had a
well-rehearsed spiel about he had enjoyed going to formal a few weeks before
and was wondering if I would be interested in “intentionally hanging out” with
him. I told him I would be interested in
doing so. At this point Arthur was
caught off guard as he had not rehearsed what to do if I happened to say
yes. We decided on a date—it would just
have to be about 2 weeks away since my academic life was in chaos with studying
for a comprehensive test of everything I learned in the past 4 years to get my
certification. We agreed to get ice
cream and “hang out”. Completely
harmless right? After I hung up with
Arthur I called my mom and was almost in hysterics since in a brief moment of insanity I had told a boy that
I would “hang out” with him. I had never
done this before and didn’t know what the long term implications might be. My mother tried to calm me down, assuring me
that one date would not be the end of the world and wasn’t any long term
commitment—just a date. Little did she
know.
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